Decision Scene:
A sailboat is an image that comes to mind when I think about
my decision making. Something as simple as choosing what color shirt to wear
for me involves me constantly changing my mind, just as a sailboat is
constantly being changed by the wind. One underlying reason I think I do this
is because I sometimes am weary of a potential outcome of a choice, so while at
first I thought the choice would produce a good outcome I quickly realized that
maybe it won’t so I changed my decision and thusly changed my direction. I try
to stay committed to things, but if I think it will not turn out for my benefit
then I may quickly abandon the idea.
Memory Glimpse:
As far back as I can remember is an experience I had one day
at lunch when I was in elementary school. Kids began throwing their trays away
and preparing to make their way to the playground. I don’t know why but that
day I decided to bring three quarters to school with me, and after lunch buy
three Hostess Ding Dongs for me and two of my friends. Why I decided to do
this, I may never figure out the true reasoning. I walked over to the table and
handed the lady three quarters, and she handed me three Ding Dongs. I was
smiling ear to ear, so happy to give my friends a treat for lunch. I looked around
the lunch room and I didn’t see them anywhere, checked the playground still no
sign of them. Finally I asked some other kids, and eventually figured out that
there weren’t at school today. Once I figured that out, I was devastated. I had
three Ding Dongs and no one to share them with. From my best recollection, I
can remember finding a bench, and sitting alone and eating the three Ding
Dongs. I wasn’t happy at all that I got more food, I was sad because I had all
this food and no one to share it with.
Micro Scenes:
As I have grown older I have experienced many awkward
moments, but looking back I can recall my first true awkward moment. I was in
the fourth grade; I can remember the cool morning and my father walking me to
class. The strange thing about this was that my Dad never walked me to class; I
was always dropped off at the front of the school and just walked to class
myself. At the beginning of the year I was enrolled in Mr. Hills class, and for
some odd reason which I still do not know today my mother did not like that
man. I thought he was a nice guy and a good teacher, but apparently she didn’t
agree with me. Eventually she forced me to switch classes. In hindsight it
wasn’t really a big deal, the classrooms were even connected. At the time
though I thought it was life changing. I didn’t know anyone in the other class,
or the teacher, I was petrified and embarrassed to go to school. That is why my
Dad walked me to class that day. I walked into the classroom that morning,
literally almost hiding behind the teacher’s leg. She said “Class this is Casey
Love, he is the new student.” At that moment everyone was looking at me, they
seemed nice but I didn’t know any of them. Would they like me, dislike me I
didn’t know. The worst part about that moment was the mystery. I just stood
there in silence not knowing what to do. It was just complete silence for a few
seconds. At that very instance is when I had my first awkward moment. Was it a
good memory, not really. Would I ever forget it, there’s no way I possibly
could.
The sailboat image is interesting to me. What you are describing is called tacking, moving from side to side so the sails fill and you ultimately, and indirectly, get to your destination. One of my students taught me that long ago. Your other posts are sad and really provide that sting that makes a memory linger, sometimes forever.
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